Motivation

Coffee with yourself

Hello all the pretty ladies out there. This blog is dedicated to you all. I know the lifestyle of a lady is much tougher than of a man. Managing those household chores, office stuffs, family, and everything, kinda everything is managed by you only. I personally don’t think that men could ever manage all that stuff which women can do, that’s why we are special you know. 😉In this hectic lifestyle, you have lost your own identity, you just forgot who were you.

Doing the things for your life partner and family is good, but in the duration don’t forget your real identity. Make them happy, but you are not supposed to sacrifice your happiness. No worries, you can compromise sometimes, but doing it every time will make people around you habitual of your this side, and somewhere you also adapt this life style.

Girl, take a deep breath, take a break, have a cup of coffee and think about the following things:

• If a person wants you, nothing can keep him away from you. So don’t worry about your relationship, if one loves you, he’ll love you for who you are, and if he wants you to change yourself, then it is the time to let him go.

• You are beautiful. You were not meant to follow orders of anybody, you are your own queen, and you have the right to live your life in your own terms.

• Buy flowers. Not for anybody else, but for you. To tell yourself that you still love yourself. If you want to love anybody else, and want someone special to love you, you need to love yourself first.

• Start meditating. This will give you more power to handle and manage the things and will keep your mind calm. Stress can ruin a person very badly, but by making meditation a part of your daily routine, you can kill the monster of stress.

• You look perfect. No worries if you have belly fat, you are still beautiful. You don’t need to do workout and diet to change your body, you look flawless and be proud of it.

• Make yourself a priority. Your wishes, your choice, matters a lot. Its ok if your beloved do not like your dressing sense, wear what he wants you to wear, but don’t drop your choice, tell him you love to wear this, and it makes you happy. You will yourself see he will never say no to your choice from next time.

• Your complete day is messy. Right? And at the end of the day you are not satisfied with what you did today and what activities are still left. Better you make a plan every morning about what you are supposed to do today, and divide time slots for every activity.

• Shopping. This is what every lady loves, but due to the tight schedule, hardly you can go for shopping. Either take those weekends for you, or better option is to go on vacation with your beloved or friends, and avoid the technology, social media. Give yourself time, and do what you like to.

• Girls, you admit or not, but we all have a bad habit of comparing yourself. Babies, you need to vanish this habit in you. We all are the gifts of our God and he had made each and every person different. Enjoy who you are.

• Tensed? Have issues with your family? Don’t spend time thinking (or I must say over thinking about the issues). Rather talk to them and resolve the issues.

 

Girls, these were some magical tricks which would definitely help you to make your life simple.

Be you, and enjoy every moment of this beautiful life. 💟

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